Monday, September 22, 2008

Why always cheating?

Lately I have been having a number of dreams where Nick has cheated on me in some form or another. I started to wonder why I was getting these dreams, only because I trust Nick in full, and I know that he would never ever do anything to hurt me or cause distrust between the two of us. I got to thinking and decided to look online for some information about cheating in dreams... and came up with this:

"Dreams of a partner cheating are common in relationships. If no concerns about betrayal or infidelity exist in waking life, the dreams are a sign of insecurity on behalf of the dreamer." - http://www.dreamdoctor.com/dictionary/cheating.shtml

I have no concerns about betrayal or infidelity when it comes to Nick and I. I thought it might have been an issue between him and I at first just because I have had trust issues with men for a few years now. A few things happened to me that have taken me a very long time to get over and the great thing about Nick is, he helps keep my chin up and supports me in every way he can. I can see how I could be insecure about some aspect in my life but I know it is not with Nick... I talked to a good friend of mine and she got me thinking about other aspects in my life that I may be insecure about and I think I finally figured it out. I am not going to go into detail about it here just for personal reasons, but I think it has finally helped to calm me down about worrying what Nick will say the next time I have another dream.

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